Let’s be honest—making friends as an adult is weird. You’re juggling kids, jobs, school, life, stress, therapy (if you’re lucky), and suddenly it hits you: “I need a friend who gets it.”
And not just a casual “comment on my story” friend—we’re talking Target trips, text message rants, “just come over” kind of friends.
The good news? You’re not alone. The better news? You’re literally in a group with over 50,000 other women who are most likely looking for the same thing—so if you’re in Lexington looking for your people, you’ve got options.
First Things First: It’s Normal to Feel Awkward
Yes, it’s a little cringey to put yourself out there.
Yes, your inner middle schooler might panic.
But adult friendships take intentionality—and it starts with being brave enough to say, “Hey, I’m looking for connection.”
Where to Start (Hint: Right Here in the Group)
We’ve made it easier than ever to find your new ride-or-die (or group chat squad) by introducing:
#FriendshipFriday
Every Friday, we welcome posts from women looking to meet new people in Lexington. You can share a little about yourself—what you’re into, your vibe, your ideal friend date—and connect with other ladies who feel the same way. (Be sure to include our hashtag #FriendshipFriday
Important: Don’t post anonymously. We know, it feels safer—but it’s really hard to make friends when no one knows who you are. You want people to actually reach out and connect with you—so show up as yourself (even if it’s messy, introverted, or awkward—we love all of it).
What to Include in a Friendship Post:
- Your name + age (if you’re comfy sharing)
- What part of town you’re in
- Your interests or hobbies
- Mom? Dog mom? Plant mom? No kids? Cool.
- What kind of friendship you’re looking for
- Bonus: Suggest a simple meetup idea (coffee? a walk? thrift store run?)
Other Ways to Make Friends in Lex (That Aren’t So Awkward)
So maybe you’re not ready to post in the group just yet.. and that’s okay—there are plenty of other low-pressure ways to meet new people in Lexington. Here’s how:
Go solo to local events
Seriously—try it. Whether it’s a pop-up market, a festival, a wine tasting, or a community gathering, just show up. You’d be surprised how many women are out doing the same thing. Not sure what’s going on? We’ve got you. Check our pinned Events Thread in the group for what’s happening around town. We update it monthly and members are constantly posting the freshest events that are happening all over Lex.
Join a class or hobby group
Whether it’s yoga, pottery, dance, painting, a book club, or even trivia night at a local brewery, shared interests make it easier to start conversations. You don’t have to be good at it—you just have to show up. Instant connection with people who enjoy the same thing? Yes, please.
Volunteer somewhere you care about
You’ll meet kind-hearted, community-minded people who also care about making a difference—and those make for some pretty great friends. Whether it’s a food pantry, animal shelter, or school event, volunteering brings people together fast. Be sure to check the group often, as members are always sharing volunteer opportunities!
Talk to your neighbors
We know—it feels old school. But your future bestie might live right next door. Say hi when you’re out walking the dog, compliment their porch decor, or invite them to a casual hangout. You don’t have to be BFFs overnight, but small talk can grow into real connection.
Support local businesses (and become a regular)
There’s something magical about walking into your favorite coffee shop or boutique and having someone say, “Hey, good to see you again!” Whether it’s a barista, a shop owner, or another customer—you’re building community just by showing up. Frequenting the same places creates opportunities to meet new people organically.
Final Thoughts
You don’t need a million friends. Just a few good ones who check in, show up, and laugh at the same memes you do. And whether you’re brand new to Lexington or just feeling ready to expand your circle—you’re in the right place.
So, go ahead. Write your post this Friday. Your people are out there.
And they’re probably looking for you, too!
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